Special Ways to Include Friends and Family in Your Wedding
1. Invite Them to Be a Witness
Signing your marriage license is a significant moment, and having a loved one act as a witness can be an intimate way to involve them. You can ask a close friend or family member, like your mom or a friend you want to highlight, to sign as a witness and share in this symbolic step of your union.
2. Ring Security
If you’re looking for a lighthearted but fun role, appoint your friends as “ring security.” They can make sure the rings are delivered safely to the ceremony and can even wear fun “security” badges or use props like a briefcase for the rings. This role adds humor while still being important to the ceremony.
3. Ask Them to Do a Reading
Giving a reading during the ceremony is a wonderful way to involve friends and family. It allows them to share in the moment in a more personal, heartfelt way. Choose a reading that resonates with your relationship, or ask them to select something meaningful to read.
Important Roles
When planning your wedding, it’s normal to want all the people closest to you to have a meaningful role in your big day. But what happens when you have more loved ones than spots in your bridal party? The solution is simple: give them special, creative roles that highlight their importance in your life without the traditional titles. Whether it’s friends you couldn’t imagine your day without or your mom who means the world to you, here are some ideas to make them feel special.
4. Usher
Ushers are great for helping guests find their seats and feel welcome, but you can make this role more significant by choosing friends who aren’t part of your bridal party. Being an usher allows them to interact with guests and still play a key role in ensuring the ceremony runs smoothly.
5. MC (Master of Ceremonies)
If you have friends who are outgoing and love public speaking, asking them to be the MC for the reception is a fantastic option. They can help introduce the wedding party, make announcements, and keep the energy high throughout the event. This is a great way to make them feel important and involved throughout the day.
6. Need a special role for your mother?
Traditionally, it’s the father who walks the bride down the aisle, but if your mom has played a major role in your life, why not have her join you? You can make this a special, emotional moment by having both parents walk with you. Another beautiful way to involve your mom is by creating a special ceremony for her, like a mother-daughter dance or a candle-lighting ceremony.
